Of course gays want full acceptance. It's directly analogous to interracial couples. Interracial couples used to be shunned, often condemned on religious grounds. Their kids were picked on.
After a few decades of hashing over the issue, most people have come around to accepting interracial families. Identical process has happened with gays, at a more accelerated pace.
There are winners and losers in all social changes. People who don't accept gays are fading away, just like the people who didn't want to let go of slavery, or people who were uncomfortable with women in the military.
The tipping point on gay acceptance passed about 5 years ago, it's a done deal.
Lombardi was a pioneer in acceptance of both gays and interracial couples
http://www.acmepackingcompany.com/20...e-gay-athletes