We have been dating a while, and had this scare before but I just have a bad feeling about this. Also I'm ANTI abortion so, it is what it is.
So what should I do.
I think I will wait and pee on some sticks. ha
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We have been dating a while, and had this scare before but I just have a bad feeling about this. Also I'm ANTI abortion so, it is what it is.
So what should I do.
I think I will wait and pee on some sticks. ha
you sneak. you added another option after I voted.
Everything will be fine. OBVIOUSLY you don't tell anybody anything 'till you know for sure.
a girlfriend once told me she thought she was pregnant. My reaction was, "Great, we'll just get married." Oddly, that upset her, I think she must have wanted me to more sensibly suggest that she get an abortion. Turns out she wasn't pregnant. She dumped me shortly thereafter, apparently the glance into the abyss of a lifetime with Harlan shook her up. In retrospect, she was a real bitch, but the sex was great.
congrats mazzin.
You're a little young, but you can make it work.
Well i haven't been feeling good, and my period (know guys hate that) is about a week and half late....the signs are there.
Will find out tommorrow. YIKES :shock:
Either way I will be happy. But than again I may just be pshycing myself out, and making it worse than it really is....i dunno.
I hope you can relax a bit, because worrying never accomplishes anything, but I guess that's easy to say from my POV.
Whether you tell your BF, your parents, or both depends entirely upon your relationships with both. If you think they may react in an unhelpful manner, then they don't need to know. If they will be supportive, then you can use the support if it is stressing you out.
Why wait til tomorrow? If you're that late, the pee stick result will be glaringly obvious right now. Just in case, don't drink anything and while you're at the drug store getting the test, pick up some folic acid tablets and take a dose.
Good Luck MQuote:
Originally Posted by Mazzin
GREAT NEWS!!!!!! Negative, and the kicker i started today, it was like an answer from heaven
Didn't tell no one other than my Pack Rat Fam
Glad to hear it, Mazz. Children are a blessing, but timing is everything.
Seems to me you are relieved Mazzin and that is what is most important. I'm happy for you that your not pregnant.
If you had of gotten pregnant I would have advised support from those that really care, and if you wanted the baby (again as it seems you would have)it may have been best to wait before making the BIG step of marriage.
Your a strong young woman, and consideration of a marriage, as the answer to an unplanned pregnancy, is not the best or most prudent answer.
My advice is use a safe and reliable form of birth control. Take full control of that potential problem or concern for your future. You don't need to worry Mazzin - take control.
Thanks ideal your a great person.
Thank you to woodbuck.
:D for YOU Mazzin.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mazzin
You're welcome, Mazz! :mrgreen:Quote:
Originally Posted by Mazzin
I hope you follow woodbuck's advice---it is very good.
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Originally Posted by Mazzin
Sort of sounds like it's the real thing, Mazzin, and you don't want
or need to hear what you could have done, so I'll just say
Good Luck, hon and keep us posted. Everything will turn out fine...
Jude
[quote="Packers4Ever"]Quote:
Originally Posted by Mazzin
Sort of sounds like it's the real thing, Mazzin, and you don't want
or need to hear what you could have done, so I'll just say
Good Luck, hon and keep us posted. Everything will turn out fine...
Jude[/quot
Whoops! Looks like I wasn't watching the post dates, sorry!
Back to normal and no more wondering and worrying. Sounds
to me like everyone here was backing you, Mazzin, they're great people!
Jude
No lie this is the best site ANYWHERE online, case closed.
Glad to here things worked out for you Mazzin. I've had these scares with my girlfriends before - not fun. No kids yet though, and no abortions either!
gotta be more carefull mazz
wrap it up!!!!!!!!!!
lifes path can change at any instant
Beauty queen of only eighteen
She had some trouble with herself
He was always there to help her
She always belonged to someone else...
Everytime I hear that song, I think of my high school sweetheart.:smile:
http://www.technologyorgasm.com/rup/used-condom2.jpg
This is what a used condom looks like. Get it? Good.
Hell you can even re-use them, but maybe thats what got you in this pickle to begin with.
If this is your second scare, you better wisen the fuck up, or get ready to become a mama.
Time for the pill. I have had a couple friends have kids when they were your age and not a single one of them is still together. The kids really suffer. Get on that pill honey, it will make your life a lot more worry free. Plus condoms suck, break etc...
Just wanted to offer my congrats that things turned out the way you were hoping. Happy 4th.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mazzin
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I first did it when I was 17. I was a virgin and she was a virgin. My parents are liberals and her are liberals. So we didnt give a fuck about consequences and we did it the natural way; no pills, no condom. It was only about 3 minutes long but it was good nonetheless.
But then the aftermath started to get into my head. What if she was pregnant and that child is the ONE who's going to save the world? I decided that abortion is an option but unlikely, even if I am a liberal. What if she was pregnant and I have to take responsibility for raising that child? Life would suck since was only 17 then.
For the next 2 weeks after we did it, I lived in apprehension. She took many a tests during that time. All were negative. I was relieved, in the end.
I have been using condoms since.:cool:
There you have it PACKERRATS. The many faces of APB.Quote:
Originally Posted by Anti-Polar Bear
You've just witnessed Tank as . . . 'the Sage'.
Jesus Fuck, this thread is still going?
Yeah! You're not pregnant even though you're too fucking dumb to use protection! Let's celebrate idiocy! Tank will jump out the cake! Whoopie. Way to go!
Sorry if I can't quite summon up the energy to jump on the "Congratulations for not suffering the consequences of being a complete and total moron" bandwagon. I'm also sorry that so many people here feel the need to congratulate and applaude your not getting pregnant. Maybe next we can give you a medal for not sticking yourself in the eye with a fork.
This whole thread makes me sick, and it's not the fact you may have been a teen (orwhateverthefrockyouare) mother. It's sickening that you seem to crave the attention of a messege board by expressing your "concerns" here instead of to... say... the fucking would-be father.
This whole thing reeks of one of Tank's "social experiments" and has played out just as poorly. Just my stupid effen opinion, but if this is real, then god help america because the children are our future and despite all the human growth and sex ed classes, they don't seem to be getting any brighter.
skin,
why are you sickened? if you don't want to hear somebody bare their soul on Oprah, change channel. Same deal here. You not only sat through the whole show, you ended up jumping up and down and yelling at the TV.
I think skinbasket needs a hug. Get over here, little fellar.
I told you why I was sickened you illiterate MFer!Quote:
Originally Posted by Harlan Huckleby
Try it and I'll kick you in your virtual balls. The whole point is that someone barfing their tenniedrama all over this place isn't "baring their soul." It's attention whoring of the highest degree. Just because my thoughts on the subject don't fall in line with the rest of you furry bastards, you think I shouldn't speak at all?Quote:
Originally Posted by Harlan Huckleby
Just like you, you little commie snob. You're all for every voice being heard as long as it agrees with you. Every dissenting voice is oppression. Now go lick Mazz's ass some more because "she's" probably some hairy 40 year old Italian dood pretending to be a distressed teenage girl to satify some deep seated depression brought on by the mocking he received at the hands of 14 year old classmates in junior high. Not that there's anything wrong with that, as Murphy would say if he weren't off humping his family somewhere where apparently they don't have newfangled devices like the internet.
Now this is some funny shit!
not trying to silence your opinion.
I am surprised that anybody cares so much about the "attention whoring." I get your explanation, logically. The thread is odd, but your passion is just as unexpected.
Unfortunately the "passion" is wholely manufactured.Quote:
Originally Posted by Harlan Huckleby
Am I annoyed by this crud? Yes.
Am I in a poor mood this morning? It looks like it.
Do I care about this crud? In the sense that I "care" about any of the stupid shit we talk about here.
I just like to unleash some gibber jabber on you every now and again, HH. Don't take it to heart. Did you see Discovery Channel's running a show they claim is free from politics (thought they never claimed free from crazy lefty brutal tree-sex greenie "make-up-the-numbers-as-we-go" scientific bias) called "Global Warming: What you need to know" this week? Judging from the title, it should be right up you fluffers' alley.
And yes, by alley, I do mean anus.
i think your tirades are hilarious, and I'm not offended at all.
and yes, I do have designs on Mazzin.
I agree with Skin, but I guess that isn't to hard to figure out.
Good to hear I'm not the only one who thinks Harlan's a fluffer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nutz
I thought Tex was nicknamed fluffer? Harlam just can't be another Fluffer. We will have to come up with a new name for Harlam.
Come on, Abortions aren't that bad. At least when you make a "mistake" deal with it properly. The less god damn people on this planet the better.
Nutz, you've been among those spinning theories about the scary person known as Mazzin, at least Skinbucket had the nads to say it in publicly. I got name for you and your judgemental ilk: pussies.
my love poem for Mazzin
Oh Mazzin's grace, how sweet the sound
that saved a wretch like me.
A chick I sought, a hairy dago I found
A lovely person is all I see
Huckleby, your really do need get back with ex wilfe. do you realize that Mazzin is 4 times less your age?Quote:
Originally Posted by Harlan Huckleby
She's a 40-year-old hairy Italian male. But I love her just the same.
BIZOW!Quote:
Originally Posted by Harlan Huckleby