How Often Do You Have Sex with Your Wife/Husband per week?

[Anti-Polar Bear]

Not to take attention away from Mazzin's thread, but though I dont know it yet, I think I may be falling for the pretty girl at work.

How often do married people fuck? I swear to God I am not LJ and i know nothing about hacking, but just from reading the regulars' posts for almost 2 years now and from my excellent investigative skill (I should join the FBI after college), this much I learned about the married folks:

Bresky and Nick Collins are turning to porn to satisfy their sexual desires. MJZiggy's husband is invisible. Wallbangers' once pretty wife is losing her prettiness with age. Grnbay007 is divorced. Nutz wife, in theory, is getting fat. Harlan is a divorced man fantasizing about Lolita. Campbell hasnt been posting for a while, so in theory, he may be marrying his 11th wife right now for all we know.

My theory is this: people get married and think they can have unlimited sex with each other. But after the second child, they stop having sex, at least not on regular basis. Eventually, the sex isnt good anymore so that prompted the wife and husband to cheat. The husband fuck the girl at work and the wife fuck the mailman. Soon the dont even have sex at all. But because of their love for their children or because of the financial difficulties of divorce, they are unlikely to divorce each others. They say love is fleeting. I think it is just sex.

Your feedback will help me greatly in deciding whether i should propose to the girl i am now falling for at the end of the summer.

Thanks.

[MJZiggy]

Now it's for sure. You've completely lost your mind to the ill effects of drugs.

[Anti-Polar Bear]

Now it's for sure. You've completely lost your mind to the ill effects of drugs.

Are you suggesting I should not propose?

[MJZiggy]

Yes, that, and that you've completely lost your mind.

[Anti-Polar Bear]

Yes, that, and that you've completely lost your mind.

A friend of mine who, along with his wife, will be seniors next fall, got married last year and they has a child and they seemed happy. I am just doing a little research to see if marriage is really as good or as terrible as they say. Another friend is married and he and the wife really talk to each others anymore. So i am a bit confused about the whole ordeal.

[MJZiggy]

You can't take one example and generalize that to whether marriage is good or bad. You have to take time to get to know this girl. You have to find out if your philosophies on life, money, religion, child rearing and other things mesh. (God help us all if they do) You have to get past the infatuation to find out if their habits drive you insane of if they're worth putting up with. You also need to know if she's trustworthy and if she wants you for you or your daddy's money. Some people are the right fit for each other some are not. Takes a bit of time to figure out. And sex between married people is also as individual as their relationship. If sex stopped after marriage, you would not have seen the giant families before birth control became effective. 12 kids? You don't get those by ignoring each other after the first or second.

[woodbuck27]

It's a little more involved - than having sex or not this or that many times Tank.

Yes the sexual activity is a barometer of sorts, but let's cut to the chase here , Eh ?

Tank enjoy what time you may have with this young woman. Man,you are way too young and over the top, having too much fun and too much you to consider a serious proposition, as getting married.

I really believe that marriage before 25-28 depended on arrived maturity is not the plan. You are young and have to enjoy your maturing years.

Women are a plenty young fella. One may leave and more step up to examine YOU. Any man who thinks he's got it over women (that he is smarter - is not in the best place).

That saying: "Behind every good man is a good or better woman", is so DAM true.

Are you smart enough and ready ( properly matured in all it's aspects )for her? Ask yourself that same question this time next year.

Also. Very much respect her as an intelligent friend as well as a lover.

[Anti-Polar Bear]

You can't take one example and generalize that to whether marriage is good or bad. You have to take time to get to know this girl. You have to find out if your philosophies on life, money, religion, child rearing and other things mesh. (God help us all if they do) You have to get past the infatuation to find out if their habits drive you insane of if they're worth putting up with. You also need to know if she's trustworthy and if she wants you for you or your daddy's money. Some people are the right fit for each other some are not. Takes a bit of time to figure out. And sex between married people is also as individual as their relationship. If sex stopped after marriage, you would not have seen the giant families before birth control became effective. 12 kids? You don't get those by ignoring each other after the first or second.

So did you vote? I am only interested in the sex aspact of marriage because, in theory, it is what keeps the marriage going.

[Anti-Polar Bear]

It's a litle more involved in having sex or not this or that many times Tank.

Yes the sexual activity is a barometer of sorts but let's cut to the chase here , Eh ?

Tank enjoy what time you may have with this young woman and man,you are way too young and over the top having too much fun and too much you to consider a serious proposition as getting married.

I really believe that marriage before 25-28 depended on arrived maturity is not the plan. You are young and have to enjoy your maturing years.

Women are a plenty young fella. One may leave and more step up to examine YOU. Any man who thinks he's got it over women (is smarter is not in the best place).

That saying: "Behind every good man is a good or better woman", is so DAM true.

Are you smart enough and ready ( properly matured in all it's aspects )for her? Ask yourself that same question this time next year.

WB, again you show that you are very wise. I will think about what you wrote.

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Thats not even close to true.

[MJZiggy]

Tank, what goes on in my bedroom is no more your business than what goes on in yours is my business. What I can tell you is that I've been married a LONG time and my marriage is healthy.

[Deputy Nutz]

Trust me Tank, Marriage is all about sex, seems like all I do is take care of my kids, type on the computer, and then have sex. It seems like all I ever do is boink my wife.

Get married, and give it hell!!!

You must be really bored this summer Tank. I mean to have the time to come up with all this make believe shit, and all of these made up stories takes a lot of time.

[Anti-Polar Bear]

Tank, what goes on in my bedroom is no more your business than what goes on in yours is my business. What I can tell you is that I've been married a LONG time and my marriage is healthy.

That must mean that sex is going good between you and your husband. Thanks to Vigeria, I believe. Sex is the most important aspect of marriage, in theory, because when it gets dull, thats when couple becomes dishonest, and if they cant handle living in such a state of dishonestly, they break up.

[Harlan Huckleby]

I think that this study needs to be broken into age groups. Or something. I mean, most people f like bunnies in their 20's. I'm curious if people keep humping after being married for 10 years.

[Anti-Polar Bear]

You must be really bored this summer Tank. I mean to have the time to come up with all this make believe shit, and all of these made up stories takes a lot of time.

Nut roll, unlike you who is a stay at home dad (hahahah), i get up at 7:30 AM Monday-Friday to get ready to go to work. What is there to do at night when you have try to get to bed at midnight other than smoke weed and chat in here? Everything is I wrote is legit. But you can believe what you want to believe, because you are a stay at home dad.

[MJZiggy]

Didn't Masters and Johnson do a study or two on that, or maybe it was Kinsey.

[Anti-Polar Bear]

Didn't Masters and Johnson do a study or two on that, or maybe it was Kinsey.

Forget about age group or Johnson and Masters. I just want to know how many of you married posters have sex with your spouce per week. Please vote.

[Deputy Nutz]

Tank you are so right, sex is so damn important. It is the reason why we get married, and it is most deffinantly the reason why all divorices happen.

I think you got it all figured out.

[Deputy Nutz]

You must be really bored this summer Tank. I mean to have the time to come up with all this make believe shit, and all of these made up stories takes a lot of time.

Nut roll, unlike you who is a stay at home dad (hahahah), i get up at 7:30 AM Monday-Friday to get ready to go to work. What is there to do at night when you have try to get to bed at midnight other than smoke weed and chat in here? Everything is I wrote is legit. But you can believe what you want to believe, because you are a stay at home dad.

Lets be honest, your jealous, thats cool I can accept that. To bad you can't. We all know how much you like to work, and we all know how much you love being a robot. Please Tank, don't ever let your job define you.

[Anti-Polar Bear]

Lets be honest, your jealous, thats cool I can accept that. To bad you can't. We all know how much you like to work, and we all know how much you love being a robot. Please Tank, don't ever let your job define you.

Hey, I dont have 2 kids to feed do I? So I can quit anytime I want to without having to worry about feeding to kids. But truth be told, I actually enjoy the internship this summer. Met the girl and get to see her everyday.