Today is my son's 1st Birthday

I don't understand birthday parties or for that manner women on the day of the birthday party. 365 days to plan for the next B'day party if they choose. Yet the annual spouse monster appears the day of each party as all crashing down when things are behind or not 100% perfect as they see

I wonder if all women are like this; I wonder if I'm suppose to react stressed because the spouse is. Maybe being the voice of reason is wrong

Like every year, the Birthday party will go fine and nobody except me will realize how stressful it all was

Then tomorrow will be a new day with all the drama forgotten about.

Until the next two Birthday's in Sept and Oct