Quote Originally Posted by Anti-Polar Bear
Quote Originally Posted by MJZiggy
Tank, what goes on in my bedroom is no more your business than what goes on in yours is my business. What I can tell you is that I've been married a LONG time and my marriage is healthy.
Sex is the most important aspect of marriage, in theory, because when it gets dull, thats when couple becomes dishonest, and if they cant handle living in such a state of dishonestly, they break up.
Generally that is a true statement Tank.

When you get to be about 35-40 years of age you will be tested with something in a male called - Mid Life Crisis.Read all you can on that topic,Tank. That is the single BEST gift I could give to you. I recommend also, the book - PASSAGES by I believe, Gail Sheey.

Understanding Men's Passages - is a good book to read, to grasp the basic developmental stages that men go through in life.

Before real love lies infatuation, an enamoured emotion of the close relationship you may develop with a woman. Give yourself time to examine that period in a romance.

Always after that, go with your guts. Gut instinct is a solid guide towords truth.

You may be the primary bread winner, and normally if that is the case you have to be properly educated and financially set to tackle the biggest punt to a failed marriage. Economic difficulties. Get your education and have fun.Get yourself setup financialy and emotionally in maturity, before even considering marriage.