No oday, i like your stuff, just read the thing we got going with basket i can't stand him!
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No oday, i like your stuff, just read the thing we got going with basket i can't stand him!
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Originally Posted by Mazzin
Well, you've done nothing but reinforce my opinion you sassy little retard. Well played. But then again, I forgot, you were over this days ago...
Four words I never thought I'd say, I agree with SkinBasket.
Although I would have probably laid off the name calling.
I think I would as well. I've been watching this argument for the last several pages and it occurs to me that although Mazzin has responded to about every one of Skinbasket's posts (as well as Harlan's and others), she did not make one peep about the discussion that Nutz and I had, apparently with each other about how to prevent this whole type of thing from happening in the future. Considering the attention that she gave to the advice of a multitude of us who have cautioned her on the dangers of posting pictures of yourself in chat rooms, I will expect the test to come back positive next time in which case she will have far less sympathy than she received this time. I can only hope that, for the sake of the kid, she takes care of herself until the inevitable happens so she will be healthy on conception. As to the pictures, let's all remember how Zarqawi died. Had something to do with him posting a vid of himself on the internet. Someone recognized some sand dune in the pic and the guy was kissing 500 lb. bombs. Personally, I'd find it creepy to have some horn dog I didn't know whacking off to my picture, but that's just me. I think I'm done now.
change of heart? :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by MJZiggy
is that harlan, joe, or bretsky?? :mrgreen:Quote:
Originally Posted by MJZiggy
No, LW, I was referring to the creep that's registered but has never posted and knew that Mazzin lived down south and was going to school and realized by seeing something he recognized in one of those pictures that he knows about where she is and has called around the stables looking for her horse and now that he has a picture of her truck complete with the Packer plate that all trucks in the deep south have, he knows he's seen that truck and he starts stalking her but she doesn't know it until he finds her and he will make her love him more than her immature boyfriend who doesn't deserve to have her. That's the horn dog I'm referring to. And any other of the guys who might whack off to a photo. (though B prefers the grail)
Mjziggy, always liked you, and you seem hurt that i didn't have a response to you earlier....well you were telling me to take the pill, which i won't do...we will continue to use a condom, i mean that is safe. I mean i always thought we got along, and im not worried about no one on here "killing" me.
I mean people have a myspace with pictures, and their city, so i dont see why i couldn't put a picture on here.
Mjziggy, sorry if it bothered you that i didn't respond, im going to continue to use protection and i wasn't really asking for sympathy persay. If i got pregnant that is on me not you guys why would i want sympathy for that. The only reason i had a problem was all the name calling outta no where for NO reason its like what did i do to him???
Mazzin,
I'm not one to give advice unless asked; however I do find it pretty disturbing that you would call the condom "safe" after you have had two scares already. I wouldn't consider a condom to be safe by itself.
Cheers,
B
Dammit, Mazzin, I am not hurt that you did not reply to my post. I am pissed that you obviously did not bother to read it. I NEVER implied that I wanted you to go on the pill. Not once. There are many methods of effective contraception out there, but condoms alone are not one of them. Read the back of the damned box. As I stated before, they are 87% effective. I read that back when I was your age (well a little older, but you'd better believe that when I started having sex, I read that box.) I knew what was on it was important so I bothered. It states right on the box that you should use it WITH ANOTHER FORM OF CONTRACEPTION preferably a spermicide. I further recommended that you visit your local Planned Parenthood office, because as their name implies, they are very good at keeping you UNpregnant until you're ready to be which you are so obviously not. They will not put you on the pill if you don't want to take it, but they will help you to figure out what form of birth control best suits your needs.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mazzin
If you continue to use only a condom with an 87% effectiveness rate, the next scare might not be just a scare especially considering you've had more than one already. This is way too important for you to be taking such a blase attitude about it. You are not ready for parenthood.
Ziggy, you sure sound peeved to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by MJZiggy
I don't think posting pics is too dangerous. People see you walking down the street every day. I think the media scares have greatly exaggerated the dangers of the internet.
Since this is a public forum, I assume anybody who writes colorfuly wishes it to be appreciated by other people. Didn't give this much thought, I don't care about your motivations. But consider the comment withdrawn.Quote:
Originally Posted by SkinBasket
Well, you may not care to think it about in these terms. But complaining about somebody's eccentric behavior is exactly what you've been doing.Quote:
Originally Posted by SkinBasket
Harlan, you've had your home address posted, if I recall right, with your phone number. Someone can't find that information seeing you walk down the street. An 18-year-old posting her pics gives people a visual on her to go with the information she posts. They've seen her truck. They've seen her horse and know his name and that he's very important to her. I'm just saying that not everyone in cyberworld is a nice guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Harlan Huckleby
And I'm not hurt and I'm not peeved. I'm pissed. Let's keep things in perspective, shall we? :wink:
Sorry to piss you off. But either way what about if we start using the condoms that come with the sperm killer on them already....besides as a general rule he does pull out anyways even with a condom, that should make it 100 percent or damned close.
I think myspace should be more a worry than the friendly people here.
Skinbasket, he is an angry little fella, but he wouldn't hurt no one!
Mazz,
I think most of us (skinbasket excepted) are most concerned because we are looking out for you. You don't seem to recognize the enormous consequences of an unplanned pregnancy at your young age.
I've said before that children are a blessing (although some people's children raise serious questions on that score, but I digress ... :razz:) but a child that you are unable to adequately provide for is no blessing at all. In so many cases, an unplanned pregnancy with the H.S. sweetheart leads to obligatory marriage, along with money problems, boatloads of resentment, and a bad life for the child. Divorce is oftentimes right around the corner.
Yes, I know, "It won't happen to ME." Well, it happens to people all the time, and they all learn the hard way that an ounce of prevention
could have saved them a ton of misery, resentment, and missed opportunity. Don't learn the hard way.
You are skating on the edge, and yet insist that your use of condoms is "safe" despite two admitted scares. This is not wise, and it's driving your well-meaning elders bonkers. For your sake, and for the sake of the child that could come of this if you are not careful, we want to see you do what's right, and take a more proactive approach to contraception. Planned Parenthood [Edit: OR your family doctor] can help you with just that very thing, and if you don't want to take the pill, there are other options. They are very discreet.
And don't mind skinbasket. He seems to think that berating you for your youthful naivete is a good approach, but he forgets he was young and naive once himself.
*Steps down from soapbox*
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Originally Posted by Mazzin
I trust that pullout method about as much as I believed Jose Canseco when he denied using Steroids years ago. Don't even work that into the equation and you are discrediting yourself if you try to convince us condoms are near 100% because we all know they aren't.
I don't see what the big problem is here. Spermicides are very handily placed right next to the condoms. When you buy a package of one, you grab a package of the other. Spermicidal coated condoms are nice, but don't help you too much if the thing breaks. If you don't think it's worth the extra $$ or extra minute it takes to use it, wander over to the next aisle and check out the price of diapers and think of the extra minutes it will take using those instead. Trust me when I tell you, it takes more than a minute. Start pricing things. Diapers, pacifiers, medicines, clothes, medical care.
As Idle put so wonderfully, children are a blessing as long as you are ready for parenthood. I said before and will say again now. You are not. You have a multitude of people here telling you this, why won't you listen? If you can't handle spermicide use with a condom, then try it with a diaphragm, spend 10 minutes in that section of the store or go with my first suggestion and get your ass to a Planned Parenthood office where they will give you samples of things to try for free and give you discounts on the method you choose according to your ability to pay for them. If not planned parenthood, go to the clinic at your university. Keep that $250,000 in mind (and that is providing the baby is born healthy--no guarantees there either). This is way too important to blow off. No, pulling out and using a condom is not near 100%. It's a whole lot more fun to protect yourself properly and finish what you started.
Finish college, start a career, get situated, make sure this guy is the real deal (cut him off for a few weeks and you'll find out quickly what part of you he loves most) and then you can get a little lax in your birth control.
Until then, you MUST protect yourself.
All joking aside, I have made a decision....will update you all monday!
Jesus Christo in a handbasket Harlan. Do you really believe what you're typing? I know you've read the rest of this fucking thread. Stupid behavior does not equal eccentric behavior. I have a problem with the former, not the latter.Quote:
Originally Posted by Harlan Huckleby
Naivete isn't the word I would use. Willful disregard and ignorance are better suited to the circumstances. She says she's 18, not 13. We were all dumb and boneheaded at 18, but in this day and age, there's no excuse for not knowing how to keep oneself from getting pregnant at that age.Quote:
Originally Posted by the_idle_threat
I was naive at that age but was smart enough to use condoms and the pill. How many sex ed classes had we sat through by the time we were 16? Enough to have seen those fantasic pictures of genital warts a few too many times, that's for sure.
I knew what the consequences were and took them seriously. She knows what the consequences are and uses them to create drama in her life.
Mazzin,Quote:
Originally Posted by MJZiggy
I think Ziggy makes some excellent points. I think it would be wise for us to get together and talk about ways to protect yourself online. I sent you an email, hope to hear from you soon, looking forward to meeting you.