Uh-Oh!

[Mazzin]

We have been dating a while, and had this scare before but I just have a bad feeling about this. Also I'm ANTI abortion so, it is what it is.

So what should I do.

I think I will wait and pee on some sticks. ha

[Harlan Huckleby]

you sneak. you added another option after I voted.

Everything will be fine. OBVIOUSLY you don't tell anybody anything 'till you know for sure.

a girlfriend once told me she thought she was pregnant. My reaction was, "Great, we'll just get married." Oddly, that upset her, I think she must have wanted me to more sensibly suggest that she get an abortion. Turns out she wasn't pregnant. She dumped me shortly thereafter, apparently the glance into the abyss of a lifetime with Harlan shook her up. In retrospect, she was a real bitch, but the sex was great.

[RashanGary]

congrats mazzin.

[RashanGary]

You're a little young, but you can make it work.

[Mazzin]

Well i haven't been feeling good, and my period (know guys hate that) is about a week and half late....the signs are there.

Will find out tommorrow. YIKES

Either way I will be happy. But than again I may just be pshycing myself out, and making it worse than it really is....i dunno.

[the_idle_threat]

I hope you can relax a bit, because worrying never accomplishes anything, but I guess that's easy to say from my POV.

Whether you tell your BF, your parents, or both depends entirely upon your relationships with both. If you think they may react in an unhelpful manner, then they don't need to know. If they will be supportive, then you can use the support if it is stressing you out.

[MJZiggy]

Why wait til tomorrow? If you're that late, the pee stick result will be glaringly obvious right now. Just in case, don't drink anything and while you're at the drug store getting the test, pick up some folic acid tablets and take a dose.

[Bretsky]

Well i haven't been feeling good, and my period (know guys hate that) is about a week and half late....the signs are there.

Will find out tommorrow. YIKES

Either way I will be happy. But than again I may just be pshycing myself out, and making it worse than it really is....i dunno.

Good Luck M

[Mazzin]

GREAT NEWS!!!!!! Negative, and the kicker i started today, it was like an answer from heaven
Didn't tell no one other than my Pack Rat Fam

[the_idle_threat]

Glad to hear it, Mazz. Children are a blessing, but timing is everything.

[woodbuck27]

Seems to me you are relieved Mazzin and that is what is most important. I'm happy for you that your not pregnant.

If you had of gotten pregnant I would have advised support from those that really care, and if you wanted the baby (again as it seems you would have)it may have been best to wait before making the BIG step of marriage.

Your a strong young woman, and consideration of a marriage, as the answer to an unplanned pregnancy, is not the best or most prudent answer.

My advice is use a safe and reliable form of birth control. Take full control of that potential problem or concern for your future. You don't need to worry Mazzin - take control.

[Mazzin]

Thanks ideal your a great person.

[Mazzin]

Thank you to woodbuck.

[woodbuck27]

Thank you to woodbuck.

for YOU Mazzin.

[the_idle_threat]

Thanks ideal your a great person.

You're welcome, Mazz!

I hope you follow woodbuck's advice---it is very good.