Why don't people say "died" anymore?

[swede]

If you don't like Christian music you might not like this. It is my daughters and I singing "el shaddai"

swede and daughters

The robins at the end lend some nice bird work. The live recording was done by my uncle Merv on a cassette player he got in Sherburn a couple Christmases ago.

[Freak Out]

Awesome.

[swede]

It is my daughters and me.

[Zool]

Not bad Swede, you've got kind of a Cat Stevens vibe to your voice.

[HowardRoark]

Holy shit.....are you Garrison Keillor?

[Patler]

If you don't like Christian music you might not like this. It is my daughters and I singing "el shaddai"

swede and daughters

The robins at the end lend some nice bird work. The live recording was done by my uncle Merv on a cassette player he got in Sherburn a couple Christmases ago.

The videography on youtube was impressive!

[Patler]

I prefer the technical term we use at the MEs office: Someone "assumed ambient temperature."

Implies a rather drawn out process, doesn't it?

I heard a term used on TV a week ago or so. Can't remember now for the life of me what it was. But my wife and I just looked at each other and broke out laughing when we heard it. I thought it would stick with me, so I could steal it and use it myself. Here was a great spot, and its gone. Age-related???????

[K-town]

This is what always comes to mind when I hear someone has died. I may need psychiatric help.

People Who Died
Jim Carrol, Basketball Diaries

Teddy sniffing glue, he was 12 years old
Fell from the roof on East Two-nine
Cathy was 11 when she pulled the plug
On 26 reds and a bottle of wine
Bobby got leukemia, 14 years old
He looked like 65 when he died
He was a friend of mine

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

G-berg and Georgie let their gimmicks go rotten
So they died of hepatitis in upper Manhattan
Sly in Vietnam took a bullet in the head
Bobby OD'd on Drano on the night that he was wed
They were two more friends of mine
Two more friends that died

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Mary took a dry dive from a hotel room
Bobby hung himself from a cell in the tombs
Judy jumped in front of a subway train
Eddie got slit in the jugular vein
And Eddie, I miss you more than all the others
And I salute you brother

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Herbie pushed Tony from the Boys' Club roof
Tony thought that his rage was just some goof
But Herbie sure gave Tony some bitchen proof
"Hey," Herbie said, "Tony, can you fly?"
But Tony couldn't fly, Tony died

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Brian got busted on a narco rap
He beat the rap by rattin' on some bikers
He said, "Hey, I know it's dangerous, but it sure beats Riker's"
But the next day he got offed by the very same bikers

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Teddy sniffing glue, he was 12 years old
Fell from the roof on East Two-nine
Cathy was 11 when she pulled the plug
On 26 reds and a bottle of wine
Bobby got leukemia, 14 years old
He looked like 65 when he died
He was a friend of mine

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

G-berg and Georgie let their gimmicks go rotten
So they died of hepatitis in upper Manhattan
Sly in Vietnam took a bullet in the head
Bobby OD'd on Drano on the night that he was wed
They were two more friends of mine
Two more friends that died

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Mary took a dry dive from a hotel room
Bobby hung himself from a cell in the tombs
Judy jumped in front of a subway train
Eddie got slit in the jugular vein
And Eddie, I miss you more than all the others
And I salute you brother

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

[swede]

I like that poem. Talk about it man. Mortality is real. The poem had a Langston Hughes meets Emily Dickinson vibe.

I like wakes. Wakes are honest.

A Hmong man, father of a girl from my classroom, died in January. The funeral took three days and it begins with the body laid out on the floor. Then the family and friends move the body to the casket together. Drums and funky bamboo horns are played for the entire time. Traditional food is provided for hundreds of mourners. The Hmong culture is very connected and collaborative that way. Many mourners are always there until the internment on the fourth day.

In India the process is much faster, but just as real. The hospices are right next to the river. Within minutes of death the family washes the body and the body is moved to a stone pyre covered with wood. The body is cremated and the bones and ashes are washed off of the stone and into the river. If dad dies at nine in the morning you'll be home by noon.

Start writing down the post-assuming-of-ambient-temperature procedures in American culture and it also starts looking odd upon close inspection. As was done to the pharaohs, we fill the bodies with preservatives to endure the long ages, encapsulating them in cushion, box, and tomb. I wonder if these actions are taken out of respect or out of deep-seated fears of the inevitable.

[swede]

The videography on youtube was impressive!

You're pretty demanding for a guy who grew up watching the radio in the front parlor.

[Patler]

You're pretty demanding for a guy who grew up watching the radio

Truth be told, I did listen to radio as a child, television was barely available anywhere, let alone out at our farm. Oh, ... and I haven't the slightest clue how to put anything up on Youtube, so I applaud you for doing so!.

[Iron Mike]

This is what always comes to mind when I hear someone has died. I may need psychiatric help.

People Who Died
Jim Carrol, Basketball Diaries

Teddy sniffing glue, he was 12 years old
Fell from the roof on East Two-nine
Cathy was 11 when she pulled the plug
On 26 reds and a bottle of wine
Bobby got leukemia, 14 years old
He looked like 65 when he died
He was a friend of mine

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

G-berg and Georgie let their gimmicks go rotten
So they died of hepatitis in upper Manhattan
Sly in Vietnam took a bullet in the head
Bobby OD'd on Drano on the night that he was wed
They were two more friends of mine
Two more friends that died

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Mary took a dry dive from a hotel room
Bobby hung himself from a cell in the tombs
Judy jumped in front of a subway train
Eddie got slit in the jugular vein
And Eddie, I miss you more than all the others
And I salute you brother

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Herbie pushed Tony from the Boys' Club roof
Tony thought that his rage was just some goof
But Herbie sure gave Tony some bitchen proof
"Hey," Herbie said, "Tony, can you fly?"
But Tony couldn't fly, Tony died

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Brian got busted on a narco rap
He beat the rap by rattin' on some bikers
He said, "Hey, I know it's dangerous, but it sure beats Riker's"
But the next day he got offed by the very same bikers

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Teddy sniffing glue, he was 12 years old
Fell from the roof on East Two-nine
Cathy was 11 when she pulled the plug
On 26 reds and a bottle of wine
Bobby got leukemia, 14 years old
He looked like 65 when he died
He was a friend of mine

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

G-berg and Georgie let their gimmicks go rotten
So they died of hepatitis in upper Manhattan
Sly in Vietnam took a bullet in the head
Bobby OD'd on Drano on the night that he was wed
They were two more friends of mine
Two more friends that died

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

Mary took a dry dive from a hotel room
Bobby hung himself from a cell in the tombs
Judy jumped in front of a subway train
Eddie got slit in the jugular vein
And Eddie, I miss you more than all the others
And I salute you brother

Those are people who died, died
They were all my friends, and they died

[mraynrand]

you don't bring me flowers anymore

[MadtownPacker]

Swede sounds like a cop in the beginning.

[swede]

Swede sounds like a cop in the beginning.

You should hear me in the classroom. I run first grade like Tommy Lee Jones.

To obtain order out of chaos they have been trained to respond in this way:

(Background noise, rustling, little voices talking)

Mr. swede: "WHO'S the man?"
(Instant quiet)
Children: "YOU'RE the man."
Mr. swede: Stow the math games and take out writing folders. Quiet writing in 45 seconds. Write, read what you've written, or write some more. Blue team at the kidney table for writing conferences. Jack, get a tissue or eat that thing and I don't much care which."