What Should I do?

[Bretsky]

Re: What Should I do?

My friend is throwing a party tonight while his parents are on vacation. There is going to be liquor and girls and I really want to go. I wouldn't drink any s**t but my mom still probably wouldn't let me go. I could probably just say I'm going to my friends and she might let me but then I'm afraid she'd pick me up and see everybody there and yell at me for not telling her it was a party. What should I do?

Does your Mom trust you? You don't need to tell her about booze and girls, but if she trusts you, just tell her that your friend is having a party, and that you know what not to do. This is when you can build trust. If you tell her you won't drink or do anything stupid, then don't drink or do anything stupid. This will build up brownie points for down the road--when you will need them.

Agree with Harv; instead of calling it a party call it a gathering though. Those Cambridge Parties can be pretty huge

Hopefully she trusts you some; because if she slams your ability to go then going forward you'll have to choose whether to be honest and stay home or choose otherwise.

[Scott Campbell]

Re: What Should I do?

My friend is throwing a party tonight while his parents are on vacation. There is going to be liquor and girls and I really want to go. I wouldn't drink any s**t but my mom still probably wouldn't let me go. I could probably just say I'm going to my friends and she might let me but then I'm afraid she'd pick me up and see everybody there and yell at me for not telling her it was a party. What should I do?

Does your Mom trust you? You don't need to tell her about booze and girls, but if she trusts you, just tell her that your friend is having a party, and that you know what not to do. This is when you can build trust. If you tell her you won't drink or do anything stupid, then don't drink or do anything stupid. This will build up brownie points for down the road--when you will need them.

I agree with Harv. You don't need to start betraying your parents trust. The skilled juvenile delinquent can both tell the truth and get his way. Take the high road.

[justanotherpackfan]

OMG I've got some stuff to tell you. First off, I'm sitting here not at the party, the gathering thing didn't work and I can't just walk there or anything. I just asked my mom and said my friend could give me a ride home but she said no it's too late you are out of luck. Well, anyway another friend who was going to be there invited some 20 year old girls that nobody even knows. The girls are underage so they couldn't get the beer so they gave $90 to some black guy and told him to get them some. The guy started walking towards the store and then ran to his car and drove off. LMAO That is awesome, I'd do that too if I were him, smart man. So basically I'm missing a party that has 6 of my friends and some 20 year old girls nobody really knows. I wouldn't drink but it still would be good. I guess that is what college is for.

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you need to stop puting yourself in these situations and start using condoms

oh wait, this isn't what i expected from this thread

well it doesn't sound like you're missing much. if the 20 years olds aren't drinking then they aren't putting out anyways

i guess i had a difenent chidhood, i didn't want to start drinking, but my parents pushed me into it

[Doe]

if the 20 years olds aren't drinking then they aren't putting out anyways

Wrong, it just makes it a little more difficult. A little practice never hurt anyone.

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if the 20 years olds aren't drinking then they aren't putting out anyways

Wrong, it just makes it a little more difficult. A little practice never hurt anyone.

eh, i don't like the challege

i prefer the druken fish in a barrel approch