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  • #1

    What is the man law regarding ex-gf's?

    I'm kind of at a difficult spot here.

    My friend dated this girl for about two years...but they have been broken up for about a year now.


    They had a bad breakup...aka they stopped talking to each other. But I kept talking to this girl because me and her were good friends. I told my friend this, he didn't mind.


    My friend lives about 3 hours away from me...and this girl just moved 20 minutes away from me last week.

    And we are gonna see a movie this weekend and have been talking about going to bball and hockey games. Its not a date, but our conversations are more flirtatious each day.

    Shes hot. I want to do naughty things with her.

    Only thing is, It might be a bad idea considering how she is a friends' ex. But then I say to myself 'its not every day girls as pretty as her want to hang out with you this much'.

    And its been over a year since theyve dated. You guys think all exes are off limits...or is 1 yr the right time to wait. This is my only place to ask, the other online forums I post at...he does too, and we have too many mutual friends for meto ask. I can't take chances. hahah
    I am better looking than you.
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    Fuck her. He will never be your soul mate. She might be. She wins.
    "You're all very smart, and I'm very dumb." - Partial

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    • #3
      Originally posted by SkinBasket
      Fuck her. He will never be your soul mate. She might be. She wins.
      QFT.
      "I've got one word for you- Dallas, Texas, Super Bowl"- Jermichael Finley

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      • #4
        How close is the friend? Someone you see all the time or a couple times a year? I don't know you or your friend, but I would guess that if you start hanging out with his ex, you're not going to be able to look at him in the face--and he's not going to want to see yours--for a long time. Think long and hard about which is worth more in the long run, the (good?) friend or the new shiny thing on the block.

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        • #5
          Are you sure she's over him? ..or could she want to date you to piss him off? If that's the case you may end up with neither in the end.

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          • #6
            Dude knows you two are friends and has no problem with that, why not see if he'd be cool with it?
            "Greatness is not an act... but a habit.Greatness is not an act... but a habit." -Greg Jennings

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            • #7
              The man law says you don't date her.

              But, if you think it will be long term relationship..then you should man up and tell your buddy.

              If it is a short term thing...is it worth potentially ruining a friendship over a piece of ass?

              Edit: If you haven't seen him in 6 months..you aren't friends. That is a college buddy. THere is a difference.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by hoosier
                How close is the friend? Someone you see all the time or a couple times a year? I don't know you or your friend, but I would guess that if you start hanging out with his ex, you're not going to be able to look at him in the face--and he's not going to want to see yours--for a long time. Think long and hard about which is worth more in the long run, the (good?) friend or the new shiny thing on the block.
                We were college buddies, but we both graduated within the last 12 months. I havnt seen him in 6 months or so.


                I'm not a relationship kind of guy. I might just try for a hit-n-run, then play dumb and pretend nothing happened.
                I am better looking than you.

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                • #9
                  Sounds like a plan. Just be sure you don't have any incriminating dents on the front of your car....

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                  • #10
                    Not worth it. Not cool. If I was said guy, I would hit you with a pipe.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Partial
                      Not worth it. Not cool. If I was said guy, I would hit you with a pipe.
                      You would clean your own pipes thinking about it. Big difference.
                      "You're all very smart, and I'm very dumb." - Partial

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by GrnBay007
                        Are you sure she's over him? ..or could she want to date you to piss him off? If that's the case you may end up with neither in the end.
                        typical chic response....you forget he still gets laid so its a win
                        The only time success comes before work is in the dictionary -- Vince Lombardi

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by bobblehead
                          Originally posted by GrnBay007
                          Are you sure she's over him? ..or could she want to date you to piss him off? If that's the case you may end up with neither in the end.
                          typical chic response....you forget he still gets laid so its a win
                          QFT

                          Yeah, losing her in the end would be devastating.

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                          • #14
                            I thought about it more, theres just too many ways this can blow up in my face, so I dont think I will do anything. Because I also have a little history with this girls' sister (thats another story in itself) haha.

                            Just not worth the headaches it may cause I think
                            I am better looking than you.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by SkinBasket
                              Originally posted by Partial
                              Not worth it. Not cool. If I was said guy, I would hit you with a pipe.
                              You would clean your own pipes thinking about it. Big difference.
                              Haha
                              Go PACK

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