What is the man law regarding ex-gf's?

[arcilite]

You guys impress me. I thought for sure someone would say 'we need pics of her first before we can answer'

[Freak Out]

Always take the chance man....that's my man law. You owe this guy nothing...you owe yourself the shot at happiness. I found my soul mate in a similar situation many years ago.

[Jimx29]

the only man law that I heard bud claims was "do NOT fruit the beer"............oh how times change

[Zool]

Always take the chance man....that's my man law. You owe this guy nothing...you owe yourself the shot at happiness. I found my soul mate in a similar situation many years ago.

Exactly. If this dude was a friend you talk to a few times a week and hang out with often she's off limits. The sister part just adds some extra spice to the equation.

[Harlan Huckleby]

if you care about your friend, you are not going to chase after some tail that will screw with your friendship.

If you have feelings for the woman, all bets are off - alls fair in love and war.

you don't need any advice, you already know what you are gonna do. I'm guessing beaver hunt.

[MadScientist]

Look, you don't see the guy much, so it's not like she's going to be in his face by being with you. If it doesn't end well with her, you can always commiserate with him about what a bitch she is. If it does work out, just remember, your bird in a bush is worth, well, a hell of a lot.

[GrnBay007]

Wonder how different the responses would be if the question was presented by a female wanting to date her ex-bf's friend? :P

[MadScientist]

Wonder how different the responses would be if the question was presented by a female wanting to date her ex-bf's friend? :P

Well for one the number of responses would be fewer, because there aren't as many lady rats here, and only a woman can figure out what goes on in a woman's mind.

[bobblehead]

Always take the chance man....that's my man law. You owe this guy nothing...you owe yourself the shot at happiness. I found my soul mate in a similar situation many years ago.

thats another issue, be honest with yourself...are you the marrying type at this point in your life?? If so take a shot if you really click...if not, you can find fun tail without pissing off the friend...even if you have drifted apart a bit.

[sheepshead]

Tell him you're gonna call her. While it may start as a nice piece of ass, it may lead somewhere. I think she's fair game. Just let everyone know the deal. How old is your friend?

[bobblehead]

Wonder how different the responses would be if the question was presented by a female wanting to date her ex-bf's friend? :P

I would tell you to put out first and then see where it leads.

[3irty1]

Its easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission. Tell him afterward. He'll appreciate the honesty and maybe even understand if she's a tractor beam of hotness.

I'm not sure but I think it also matters:

1. If it was the gal or your friend that ended things a year ago
2. If either of them have dated anybody since

[Harlan Huckleby]

Its easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission. Tell him afterward. He'll appreciate the honesty

honesty? weasle-honesty maybe.

[3irty1]

Its easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission. Tell him afterward. He'll appreciate the honesty

honesty? weasle-honesty maybe.

In this situation he is looking for not-feel-guilty-honesty not look-out-for-my-pseudo-college-buddys-feelings-honesty.

[hoosier]

Its easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission. Tell him afterward. He'll appreciate the honesty

honesty? weasle-honesty maybe.

In this situation he is looking for not-feel-guilty-honesty not look-out-for-my-pseudo-college-buddys-feelings-honesty.

This is exactly the kind of moral dilemma that alcohol was invented to resolve.