I'm getting a divorce

[pacfan]

Mr Rand here makes a good point. And check your pm for gods sakes.

isn't he agnostic?

[MJZiggy]

Then whose sakes do we do stuff for?

[Iron Mike]

There is no such thing as a good divorce, or easy divorce. They vary from horrible to really horrible.

QFT

[Deputy Nutz]

My buddy got married and before the ink dried on his marriage license he got a divorce, it probably messed him up a bit, but it turned his wife into a crack head.

[mraynrand]

My buddy got married and before the ink dried on his marriage license he got a divorce, it probably messed him up a bit, but it turned his wife into a crack head.

Sounds like the plot of "The Heartbreak Kid" with Charles Grodin and Cybil Shepherd

[MJZiggy]

There is no such thing as a good divorce, or easy divorce. They vary from horrible to really horrible.

QFT

I don't know about that. The nuts and bolts of mine is going pretty easy.

[Harlan Huckleby]

I had a root canal and it was no big deal.

[4and12to12and4]

You guys and gals are like my second family, you don't know what it means to me to have all you're responses in this thread, thanks for the support. I am going to talk to my wife about telling the kids this week instead of waiting. I think they'd be estatic about it anyways. They've made it clear that they hate it when we're home together. My biggest question is do I rent a condo in the same complex she lives in, there's another condo, two bed, two bath with a jucuzzi (sp?) in it I can rent for seven hundred a month with a garage, washer and dryer in it, and heated srorage room in the garage that I could keep my paint, it's perfect, but ten minute drive to see my kids, whereas they could walk to my condo if I lived on the property, but I'd have to pay $150 more a month for the same footage with no garage if I stay in the same condo complex as my wife. So, I have to make that decision. I don't wanna live that close to my wife, but being walking distance for my kids might be worth it so they can walk over at any time, rather than me having to drive to see them. I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

[HarveyWallbangers]

Living right next to your ex-wife doesn't sound like a good idea, but what do I know.

[Scott Campbell]

You guys and gals are like my second family,

We sure are as dysfunctional as most regular families.

[MadtownPacker]

I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

If you are going to be cool with seeing another dude go over there (because eventually it will happen) then do it. But maybe it is better not to go against the grain. 10 mins aint that far.

[GrnBay007]

I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

If you don't want to live that close to your ex and the other place works better for you then you should do it. I think you said your youngest is 15. She will be driving soon. A 10 min. drive is nothing. Even if you are not living within walking distance for your kids, things really can be ok.

[MJZiggy]

Yeah, take the place that works for you. On a sidenote, you couldn't rent a parking space here for $750 a month...

[mraynrand]

You guys and gals are like my second family,

We sure are as dysfunctional as most regular families.

Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.

[Deputy Nutz]

Personally if I had to divorce my wife I would get as far away from her as I could, I mean whats the point of getting a divorce then?