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2024 3rd Round Pick #91 Overall Ty'Ron Hopper
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Im starting to think this guy banged some chick you like because the hate is very strong in you.Originally posted by RashanGary View PostSo since we’ve determined beyond a doubt that he is dead average compared to players who make it into the NFL, he should be better than average in other areas and he’s not!
He is a bust.
How the fuck IS he a bust if he hasn’t played yet? You can say he is going to be a bust but right now you are about the same as this lady.
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I’m sorry. I was stressed out because my oldest son had a break up from his highschool girlfriend 6 months ago and there is some bullshit fallout. He’s always been confident and didn’t have to prove anything or act like an arrogant privileged white guy. He’s 21 years old and a year away from graduating with his bachelors with honors. It’s great. He’s doing well.
However, he’s working out and taking ridiculous gym pictures now. And coming off like he’s smarter than everyone and just generally being the insecure entitled white guy that his mom’s family breeds.
So I can’t reach him at all about just investing in relationships and happiness like I could before. He’s on a mission to prove something and I hate the suffering that goes with that. So I was frustrated that I couldn’t get through to him and I was super agitated. Additionally, my second son is debating between engineering fields or stating a business in a trade. So that’s a whole additional stress because I just hate to see my kids suffer and want him to make a good decision.
So anyway, I was feeling helpless and powerless to explain things and then this came up and I lost my shit.
I’m sorry.Formerly known as JustinHarrell.
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I’m sorry. I was stressed out because my oldest son had a break up from his highschool girlfriend 6 months ago and there is some bullshit fallout. He’s always been confident and didn’t have to prove anything or act like an arrogant privileged white guy. He’s 21 years old and a year away from graduating with his bachelors with honors. It’s great. He’s doing well.
However, he’s working out and taking ridiculous gym pictures now. And coming off like he’s smarter than everyone and just generally being the insecure entitled white guy that his mom’s family breeds.
So I can’t reach him at all about just investing in relationships and happiness like I could before. He’s on a mission to prove something and I hate the suffering that goes with that. So I was frustrated that I couldn’t get through to him and I was super agitated. Additionally, my second son is debating between engineering fields or stating a business in a trade. So that’s a whole additional stress because I just hate to see my kids suffer and want him to make a good decision.
So anyway, I was feeling helpless and powerless to explain things and then this came up and I lost my shit.
I’m sorry.Formerly known as JustinHarrell.
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Sounds like the glass is way more than half full.Originally posted by RashanGary View PostI’m sorry. I was stressed out because my oldest son had a break up from his highschool girlfriend 6 months ago and there is some bullshit fallout. He’s always been confident and didn’t have to prove anything or act like an arrogant privileged white guy. He’s 21 years old and a year away from graduating with his bachelors with honors. It’s great. He’s doing well.
However, he’s working out and taking ridiculous gym pictures now. And coming off like he’s smarter than everyone and just generally being the insecure entitled white guy that his mom’s family breeds.
So I can’t reach him at all about just investing in relationships and happiness like I could before. He’s on a mission to prove something and I hate the suffering that goes with that. So I was frustrated that I couldn’t get through to him and I was super agitated. Additionally, my second son is debating between engineering fields or stating a business in a trade. So that’s a whole additional stress because I just hate to see my kids suffer and want him to make a good decision.
So anyway, I was feeling helpless and powerless to explain things and then this came up and I lost my shit.
I’m sorry.
My wife and I found that a really wierd age range for us. You look at them and you still see your little kids, but they're adults.
I started a lot of conversations with "ok, here is my unsolicited advice, but I'm going to support whatever you decide is best for you".
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Fuck it. Cut Dennis Hopper NOW!Originally posted by RashanGary View PostI’m sorry. I was stressed out because my oldest son had a break up from his highschool girlfriend 6 months ago and there is some bullshit fallout. He’s always been confident and didn’t have to prove anything or act like an arrogant privileged white guy. He’s 21 years old and a year away from graduating with his bachelors with honors. It’s great. He’s doing well.
However, he’s working out and taking ridiculous gym pictures now. And coming off like he’s smarter than everyone and just generally being the insecure entitled white guy that his mom’s family breeds.
So I can’t reach him at all about just investing in relationships and happiness like I could before. He’s on a mission to prove something and I hate the suffering that goes with that. So I was frustrated that I couldn’t get through to him and I was super agitated. Additionally, my second son is debating between engineering fields or stating a business in a trade. So that’s a whole additional stress because I just hate to see my kids suffer and want him to make a good decision.
So anyway, I was feeling helpless and powerless to explain things and then this came up and I lost my shit.
I’m sorry.
We got your back, in a weird internet sort of way."The Devine era is actually worse than you remember if you go back and look at it."
KYPack
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Update… All kids are doing well. My oldest son is doing really well, just sort of being a regular successful 21 year old in today’s world. I’ve chilled the hell out and just accepted that they’re pretty much all gonna get sucked into these worldly traps for a minute before they find what brings the most joy and contentment.
It was kind of sad because my oldest son kind of set his life up to make being an available father his top priority and I saw a poll on women’s priorities age 18-24 and they have vacations and beach time ahead of their relationship with their partner. So being parents isn’t really something young people are valuing these days.
But it is what it is. There’s no changing it and I’ve chilled the hell out!
Going to Memorial Day grill out with the whole fam on Saturday and definitly NOT going to keep dropping subtle annoying hints at how superficial I think gym pictures and using big words to sound smart are
I have a pretty long history of being not only accepting, but outwardly proud of everything my kids are so six months of rolling my eyes isn’t going to destroy a 21 year relationship with very very little conflict.
You guys definitely helped me out with the “at least they talk to you” and other comments because it made me realize I’m on the path of putting a huge block between me and one of the only people I’ve invested in, in this world. My whole life I’ve always believed that community accolades and best guy awards are superficial and really don’t make the impact of being a good father, son or commitment to the closest people. So I pretty much have 6 extremely close people and you guys are the only less deep relationships I put even a shred of effort into.
Of all people, I’m the last person who should be sabotaging my tiny relationship pool. Plus, the less unconditional love he gets from his family, the more likely those surface community awards from people who don’t even know him will feel good.
So thanks rats, for helping to straighten me the fuck out.Formerly known as JustinHarrell.
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